With self-promotion dominating just about everything we see, I think we (society) need a reset. I believe there is a better way for life and business, and it sounds too easy, but it’s actually incredibly difficult and countercultural. 

The Shift to Selflessness 🤲

Imagine shifting the focus from “selfie” to “selfless.” What if, instead of centering everything around ourselves, we focused on how we can serve others? This isn’t just about random acts of kindness; it’s about adopting a mindset where consistent service becomes a part of who we are. After all…

Consistent Service Cultivates Selflessness 🌱

The more we can give away—our time, our talents, our resources—the better we are positioned to find meaning and fulfillment in life and work. Here’s how consistent service cultivates selflessness:

  1. Broadens Perspective 🌍
    When we focus on serving others, our world expands. We begin to see life through different lenses, understanding others’ challenges, needs, and aspirations. This broadens our perspective and reminds us that we’re part of something bigger than ourselves.
  1. Builds Stronger Relationships 🤝
    Service is the foundation of strong, meaningful relationships. When we consistently show up for others, offering help and support, we build trust and deepen connections. These relationships become the cornerstone of our personal and professional lives.
  1. Increases Fulfillment đź’–
    There’s a profound sense of fulfillment that comes from serving others. When we shift the focus away from ourselves and towards making a difference in someone else’s life, we find a deeper sense of purpose and satisfaction.
  1. Creates Lasting Impact 🌟
    Consistent service leaves a lasting impact—not just on those we help but on ourselves as well. It shapes our character, strengthens our resolve, and sets the stage for a life of meaningful contributions.

Conclusion: From Selfie to Selfless

Moving from “selfie” to “selfless” isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it. Embracing consistent service cultivates selflessness, which in turn brings deeper meaning and fulfillment to our lives and work.

So, the next time you find yourself caught up in the selfie culture, take a step back and think about how you can shift your focus. What can you give away today? How can you serve others?

Remember, the more we give, the more we grow.


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Micah Foster, Co-Owner

Micah Foster is a partner at Dream Support LLC who has been providing remote executive assistants to busy leaders who need administrative and organizational help for over five years.

He has a passion for creating and maintaining positive and productive work environments and empowering people to reach their full potential.